A Letter To You.

The anxious negotiator

The person who feels sweaty at the thought of negotiations. The one who feels awkward saying no.

Who doesn't know how to start a negotiation. The person who is flustered by all the scope creep.

You who always forget to represent yourself when you negotiate.

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People in power have been dictating the game of negotiation forever


Stop trying to assert yourself, crush your opponent, and end up giving more than you get.

Aim for something better, something you value more: long term relationships, respected boundaries, and more money in your pocket.

The old way of negotiating left people like you and me without leverage.

It is time you learn how to negotiate successfully regardless of the power dynamics you are up against.

You don't need a new personality

Stop negotiating on other people's terms

What you need is a system that helps you step into any negotiation fully prepared with a plan for what to do and say next, no matter what curve balls come your way.

Are you tired of playing power games when you could be focusing on building relationships? Do you want to feel ready and at ease when you walk into your next negotiation?

Then it is time to start negotiating differently – it is time to be brave.



Let's create the boundaries you need to reach agreements on your terms.

If you want to work together or collaborate on something send me an email at janet@onyourterms.cc.